Gabourey Sidibe isn’t traditional, so her wedding to Brandon Frankel won’t include any of the typical fixtures. She told Bridesthat means no bridesmaids or bachelorette party. Even the iconic white dress is out. “It cannot be a traditional wedding,” she said. “Really, it can’t be. I don’t want anything done the ‘traditional’ way. Our relationship is very much on our terms and I want it to be fun, like a true party.” Initially, the “Empire” alum rejected the idea of a formal ceremony altogether. “I’ve always been like, ‘No, we shouldn’t have a wedding,'” she added. “Maybe we’ll throw a barbecue, get married in the bathroom, and then we’ll come out and tell everyone we’re married.”
Sidibe later softened her stance, ultimately deciding on a party. But wedding-planning is no easy feat. So she and Frankel are outsourcing most of the work — while still ensuring they have the final say. “We’ll have someone [helping], but we’ll definitely be super involved,” Frankel said. A lot still needs to be done, but they have time. They don’t have a set date yet but are shooting for spring 2023.
Frankel doesn’t hide his excitement over the coming nuptials. “Can’t believe it’s been a year since I asked my best friends and soulmate to marry me!” he gushed on Instagram. “Love you forever and ever @gabby3shabby — can’t wait to have our wedding!”